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Sex Q&A: Does size really matter?

The masculinity of a man lies in his equipment and how to use it. Men also get insecure about their penis like women get insecure about their body size. Most men seek reassurance from their partners if their penis size is ok and amazing. This reassurance helps boost their confidence in the bedroom and how they approach their fellow men. Men who have been told their penis is small are not as confident when it comes to sex and shy away from sexual encounters with women. Therefore, size does matter to men but not in the context of satisfaction. It matters to men because it is their source of masculinity. If your man has a small penis but you constantly reassure them the sex is good and you are satisfied, their ego is boosted and they are no longer insecure about their size.
On the other hand, for women, it is hard to say whether size matters. In a survey that was conducted, most women in relationships were content with the penis size they had in their relationships. However, for some of the younger women between 18 and 30, the size of the penis mattered. While most women like the idea of a big thick penis, once they have it, they cannot stand it. Women who had the privilege to hook up with men with big penises only did it once or twice and would not do it again. This is because a big penis comes with adverse effects. While the thought of it may be sexy, a big penis calls for a lot of lube and a lot of perseverance. Having sex with a big thick penis is painful for many women if not all. The day after sex is usually the worst because of all the sores that you have.
A girl once dated a guy with a big penis for only three months and during the time she avoided sex as much as possible. She preferred oral sex as opposed to vagina intercourse. When asked if she would go back to the same guy she strongly said no simply because intercourse was a nightmare. This shows that size also matters to women because as much as they want a big penis, they also want to be comfortable when it comes to sex. For other women, the size does not matter as long as there is satisfaction. Women feel like the penis size does not play any role in sexual satisfaction; it is just how you use it to your satisfaction. While this may work for some women, others cannot and will never date a guy with a small penis. The penis has to be at least an average size but not too big as well. A small penis is just a turn off for many women.
Unfortunately, there is no way of telling the size of a man’s penis when you meet them for the first time. You will have to wait till you are in the bedroom and pray you get lucky with the penis size. Most men with small penis often overcompensate on other aspects of their masculinity. For instance, they tend to brag a lot about their possessions or dress expensively. This way, they do not feel as insecure when it comes to the bedroom. If you happen to fall in love with a guy that has a small penis it does not mean you walk out of the relationship. See it as a shortcoming because you also have your shortcomings that your man is putting up with. Instead, focus on all the other areas that your man is extra good at. The problem only arises if he has a small penis and you are not satisfied in the bedroom, but if the penis is small and you are satisfied sexually, it really should not matter.
Ultimately, a lot of controversy surrounds penis size and sexual satisfaction. One thing you should do is always reassure your man that he is enough regardless of the penis size.